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Dr. Mark Andrews
Jan 32 min read
Parenting A Child With Sensory Deficits (part 3) . . .
Previously, I shared with you about the sensory challenges kids like Sabrina and Charles face. In this final installment on Sensory...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Dec 2, 20243 min read
Parenting A Child With Sensory Deficits (part 2) . . .
In my previous blog I shared some introductory information about sensory deficits experienced by foster and adopted children. Research...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Oct 27, 20242 min read
Parenting A Child With Sensory Deficits (part 1) . . . .
“He pitches a fit if he has to wear a shirt with long sleeves!” . . .”She screams that the water from the shower head hurts her skin—how...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Oct 8, 20243 min read
MY CHILD IS HOARDING FOOD—WHAT’S A PARENT TO DO?!
Tyler is 10 years old, and recently came into foster care with Mr. and Mrs. Norton. The Norton’s have two biological children, a daughter...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Sep 9, 20242 min read
The “Fear Factor” that Motivates Kids to Lie . . .
A couple years ago, I wrote a two-part blog called “What to Do About Lying!” (Scroll down to August of 2022 if you’d like to check those...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Aug 12, 20242 min read
BIRTH PARENT FANTASIES—THE “Emotional Umbilical Cord” . . .(part 2)
In my previous blog I shared the story of seven-year-old Tori, who out of her personal grief and emotional turmoil, created a fantasy...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Aug 2, 20242 min read
BIRTH PARENT FANTASIES—The “Emotional Umbilical Cord” . . . (part 1)
Tori is seven years old. She recently came into care after being removed from her biological parents’ home. They were manufacturing,...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Jul 6, 20243 min read
WHEN YOU LOVE THEM BUT DON’T LIKE THEM: When your child has pushed you to the limit . .
“He sees it as his life’s mission to drive us crazy!” state an exasperated Mrs. Thomas. The Thomases began fostering 12-year-old Jonathan...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Jun 24, 20243 min read
THESE BIO PARENTS MAKE ME SO FRUSTRATED!! – Encouragement for foster parents dealing with your foster child’s biological parent(s) . . .
I hear it on an almost weekly basis as I provide Parent Coaching for foster parents—their frustrations with their child’s biological...
Dr. Mark Andrews
May 24, 20242 min read
“WILL YOU PLEASE ACT YOUR AGE?!!” – Help for parents . . .Part 2
Maria is 12 years old. She was recently adopted from Colombia by a loving family in the U.S. Prior to that she was in an orphanage for 8...
Dr. Mark Andrews
May 9, 20243 min read
“WILL YOU PLEASE ACT YOUR AGE?!!”—Help for parents . . .Part 1.
“He’s 10 years old, has the ‘street smarts’ of a 25-year-old, but he acts like a 3-year-old when he doesn’t get his way!!” Over the...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Apr 19, 20242 min read
PARENT-TO-PARENT COACHING ™ -- Help for struggling adoptive and foster parents . . .
For us adoptive and foster parents, there will inevitably be challenging periods in our parenting journeys. These challenges can vary...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Apr 1, 20243 min read
FEAR, the “fuel” for our children’s negative behaviors: Help for parents . . .
Jonathan is 10 years old. He’s been in foster care since he was eight. Those first eight years were marked by extreme abuse and neglect....
Dr. Mark Andrews
Mar 4, 20242 min read
“Feeding” your child’s brain—helping our children recover from trauma . . .
There is an overwhelming amount of well-documented research that tells us that a child’s brain development can be significantly impacted...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Feb 5, 20242 min read
TRANSITIONS AND MELTDOWNS . . How to Help Our Children (part 2 . . .)
In my previous blog, I explained how--for children from traumatic backgrounds--that transitions in daily routine can lead to major...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Dec 22, 20232 min read
TRANSITIONS AND MELTDOWNS: How to Help our Children . . .
Change is a constant in our daily lives. Our daily schedule suddenly changes via an interruption or rescheduled meeting. We have to...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Nov 25, 20233 min read
Help for the Holidays—Supporting adoptive and foster children during the holiday season ...
Tori is ten years old. She entered foster care for the first time ten months ago. Tori’s biological father died due to a drug overdose,...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Nov 3, 20232 min read
Kinship Foster Care: Families Taking Care of Their Own . . .
Over the past few years, there has been a noticeable reduction in the number of children in traditional foster care in the U.S. This is...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Oct 17, 20232 min read
CRITICAL CONVERSATIONS: Talking with your foster child about his or her birth parents (part 2).
Michaela is 12 years old and has been in foster care for six months. Until recently, she was having supervised visits with her...
Dr. Mark Andrews
Sep 4, 20232 min read
CRITICAL CONVERSATIONS: Talking with your foster child about his or her birth parents. . .
Most foster parents know from experience that interacting with their foster children regarding the children’s birth parents can be a real...
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